The Cycle of Friendship
I find it very funny and shocking how strangers can become friends. I mean you have no clue who this person is and all of a sudden you start talking to them. You guys talk to each other for a while and before long you know all about them. That's when friends become best friends. If you think about it, your best friend probably knows more about you than your parents do. I know that my best friend knows more than my parents. If you don't have any friends you probably have a sad life.... lol But anyways, way to often the cycle goes the opposite way. You meet someone, y'all become close, then all of a sudden you are pretty much just strangers with memories. It's sad to see, it's even worse to go through it. When you lose a friend you feel worthless, and like you don't have any reason to get up in the mornings. You walk past them everyday, wanting to speak to them, wanting to tell them that you are sorry and you wish you could redo everything. But you can't build up the courage to do so. But after a while you meet another person and they become your bestfriend.
Peace Out Girlscout,
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Myself have learned in life , the older I became I lost some people closest to me and gain some. Two of my high school friends have already died. One had health issues and the other was murdered by her step dad last Christmas. They both were so young , still kills me inside to this day to talk about it. Just be mindful that life is short and don't let something simple as a small disagreement make you regret losing a friend you can never get back.
ReplyDeleteLike KAllred7, I agree that wisdom of time demonstrates that the reasons for losing friends are usually insignificant in the large scheme of things. Some "friends" aren't truly friends, and its no use trying to hang on to a lost cause, but other people who are called friends but slip away are dearly missed later on in life.
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